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“While Israel and Palestine are not the only places in the world where people are locked into seemingly intractable conflict,” says filmmaker Laurie White, “it’s unique to this situation that the ramifications are felt worldwide, and at times with the same intensity as for those involved directly in the conflict.” For her film, refusing to be enemies-the zeitouna storyLaurie White has edited one hundred hours of footage to represent the root suffering of these two peoples and the devastating complexities generated from their histories. White documents the special bond which grows between the members of her Zeitouna dialogue group as they share cultural food and personal narratives. The camera reveals how commitment to learning and practicing dialogue in each other’s living rooms unknowingly leads to the most tender and fundamental transformations within the life of each woman. refusing to be enemies is simultaneously painful and joyous while navigating the deepest areas of the heart. As the events of the world test and fortify them, refusing to be enemies introduces audiences to larger than life heroines who are at the same time vibrantly human. Audiences are left with the seed of a belief that Zeitouna’s extraordinary feat is possible for anyone willing to learn and commit.

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